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Originally Posted by Lisa
Agree. But I wonder... could she have been simply genuinely surprised that you look so much younger than you are? Maybe her gut reaction was disbelief... but not rejection... and you were just so sensitive to the age issue that perhaps you misconstrued her response. Maybe?
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There is a lesson in this argument: Instead of assuming rejection, go ahead and ask. The worst that can happen is the rejection that was assumed anyway, so it can't be worse... and perhaps it would bring a pleasant surprise!
