Ok, so I went to my AD today and checked another reference that has the same 3235 movement(Datejust 41) and the rotor noise is more pronounced in that watch as well.
Apparently this is the way this new movement is. As for the -4 sec/day I will keep up with it to see if the movement settles in inside the -2 +2 window. I still would like feedback on others experience with references having the 3235 movement.
