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Originally Posted by subtona
the most significant thing I have identified is this,
Are you still communicating? If either of you has gotten to the point of disregard for the others feelings or opinions then in my experience this is the point of no return.
If you are not there then options are still available, one of which could be time away to reflect on what it is that is missing and what is important and hopefully how to prioritize those things together.
Never easy but time is known to heal.
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Great advice ~
I wish you luck. Communication is the key. Expressing ones feelings and an acknowledgement of them by the other party is where it all starts.
If the lines of communication are open - keep them open and work towards a mutual understanding on each others needs.
Life is too short to argue every day about everything. Why is that happening? Does she acknowledge it? Does she address it?
Are you part of the problem? Anything you can do to minimize the arguing?
Besides counseling are you doing everything possible on your end to calm the storm? Do you both pick and choose your battles?