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Sorry to hear this Tom. Sounds like you are being proactive--counseling, talking about it, seeking advice. Sometimes when relationships mature there is a never ending "score keeping" process that leads to arguments, and a strong need to be right. Sometimes this kills relationships, other times if both parties are able to look at "their" part of the problem and seek personal growth, the relationship can grow and be repaired. Must eliminate score keeping and being right for both parties. Impossible to know where both of you are and what you are willing to do. Writing out a list of strengths and weaknesses is a healthy process and might produce results.
Good luck and I hope the best for both of you.
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Judge Smails: Ty, what did you shoot today?
Ty: Oh, Judge, I don't keep score.
Judge Smails: Then how do you measure yourself with other golfers?
Ty: By height.
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