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Old 8 December 2022, 01:24 AM   #196
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Originally Posted by daveathall View Post
I think that the last two posters have summed it up perfectly, I could have 100 billion or owe a 100 billion, but without my wife, I have no quality of life whatsoever, absolutely none.
Again, another situation which depends on the individual.

While I love my ex very much, I’m currently living a happier, less stressed life.

And while I had a prenup, I essentially ripped it up and gave her significantly more. My thought process is that it was my responsibility to ensure she is living a good life. So I made certain that she would ultimately never have to worry about money again.

Now, I have less. Less “currency” and less a partner. But I’m happier than I’ve ever been. I’m also decluttering my of “stuff” which has been very fulfilling and rewarding.

I do hope the ex and I can somehow, someday figure it all out. But I realize I might just be happier alone, regardless of the person I’m with.

Some people just prefer to be alone.
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