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Old 8 December 2022, 01:39 AM   #199
Star Ferry
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Originally Posted by superdog View Post
It’s possible those men just have a different definition of happiness than you do.

Doesn’t mean they are miserable. Or more accurately, doesn’t mean that if they settled down with a perfect woman, they would find themselves magically happy.

The hallmark movie just isn’t real for a great many. Dare I say the majority.
Certainly different strokes for different folks, Seth. The behavior I'm talking about is more like hedonism than romance or companionship, i.e. going after more and more coveted and exclusive girls, with increasingly higher costs to keep, like chasing that high jumping from Rolex to Patek to Greubel Forsey.

They'd almost certainly tell me I'm a chump loser and that they're living their best life. But I've seen enough firsthand to believe that treating interactions with women, and relationships in general, as another competition to "win" is a negative-EV activity that mostly doesn't end well for the gentlemen involved.
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