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visualplane · 21 July 2017, 02:15 PM

There seems to be a lot of patience in TRF, and it's something I struggle with. Any tips on having more patience?

Muzz · 21 July 2017, 03:34 PM

Have kids. Nothing will test you like that lol.

Rock · 21 July 2017, 06:50 PM

Patience - in a Forum context - is (for me) about showing respect for the person even though you may not agree with their opinion or stance on something.
Unless they have intentionally and maliciously wounded you, they are entitled to their opinion without being attacked.

rootbeer7 · 21 July 2017, 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Muzz

Have kids. Nothing will test you like that lol.

Yes, yes, yes and yes.

lapince · 21 July 2017, 07:08 PM

Kids is a good option, but basically try to keep a good nature, even if someone attacks you or makes fun of you don't get mad, I usually laugh about it, until some extent, some even thought I was a troll at one point incapable of really buying the watches I posted about, that changed, so even that made me laugh mostly at the time

Just don't take anything personally and you'll be fine, ignore threads or posts without interest for you, if a member for you has a stupid opinion, give yours once, if that don't work go on to the next post/thread, and don't feed the trolls, there are a few, though not many

Andad · 21 July 2017, 07:24 PM

Good advice dad.

And i have most of them on 'the list'.

Psmith · 21 July 2017, 08:08 PM

Hurry up and reply already

ejvette · 21 July 2017, 08:37 PM

Xanax

cop414 · 21 July 2017, 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rock

Patience - in a Forum context - is (for me) about showing respect for the person even though you may not agree with their opinion or stance on something.
Unless they have intentionally and maliciously wounded you, they are entitled to their opinion without being attacked.

Exactly

1William · 21 July 2017, 08:54 PM

Many say the patience is a virtue. I say patience is a virtue only when it works to further your overall goals. Many hide behind the patience quote when really they cannot make a decision or are unwilling to act. I can agree with the patience concept above about showing respect but I think it is slightly off in that courtesy and respect are the cornerstone of TRF for me and patience is different. Every insult or slightly off comment does not warrant a response or a return insult. In my time here, it is clear that many of the offenders don't last long as they either don't get the responses they want or they get removed. For me, some of the best TRF members are ones that will accept another persons viewpoint but acknowledge that does not work for them. No reason to knock another member down on something that is a matter of choice.

brandrea · 21 July 2017, 08:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Muzz

Have kids. Nothing will test you like that lol.

No doubt

THC · 21 July 2017, 09:03 PM

Op must not be married

ejvette · 21 July 2017, 10:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by THC

Op must not be married

I was thinking exactly that!

RolEdx · 21 July 2017, 10:32 PM

I just started a new thread asking something similar, but in a different context (it's pending moderator's approval)...

mfer · 21 July 2017, 10:38 PM

My religious friend who is very patient and has 5 kids told me (not as patient)
"Don't wish for patience as god will give you more opportunities to learn."

superdog · 21 July 2017, 10:50 PM

I have zero patience. Sorry. Cant help.

lapince · 22 July 2017, 02:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by directioneng

Good advice dad.

And i have most of them on 'the list'.

Thanks son

PM me that list when you can, to see if we have matching ones

TheVTCGuy · 22 July 2017, 04:10 AM

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Originally Posted by superdog

I have zero patience. Sorry. Cant help.

X2. Seth and I would get along great.

visualplane · 22 July 2017, 04:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mfer

My religious friend who is very patient and has 5 kids told me (not as patient)
"Don't wish for patience as god will give you more opportunities to learn."

Man, I think i've been in that situation lately.

mannyv11 · 22 July 2017, 04:15 AM

Try to read a BC thread and you will soon find out how much patience you really have lol!

visualplane · 22 July 2017, 04:46 AM

I frequent a few other forums and notice a difference in culture meaning, less "dramah" overall. I'm curious about the other members here, and it's true, it seems there's more success and less drama.

I get frustrated with the trolls and "haters" (been going to those forums since 2000). I'm trying to shift my way more towards here in a more positive and mature vibe but habits are hard to break.

As far as patience, i'm just trying to learn, and notice how some members can wait years for a watch.

TheVTCGuy · 22 July 2017, 04:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mannyv11

Try to read a BC thread and you will soon find out how much patience you really have lol!

Chewbacca · 22 July 2017, 04:56 AM

hurry up and close this bloody thread. i have no time for this nonsense.

where's the red letter brigade! where i says!!!

BristolCavendish · 22 July 2017, 04:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mannyv11

Try to read a BC thread and you will soon find out how much patience you really have lol!

+

Back to topic. Patience is a virtue. Just don't wait too long (or procrastinate) for good things in life to happen.

As far as internet forums go, expect the unexpected and you will be fine.

ejvette · 22 July 2017, 05:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by superdog

I have zero patience. Sorry. Cant help.

Road rage?? Lol

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visualplane · 22 July 2017, 05:01 AM

lol

swils8610 · 22 July 2017, 11:09 AM

I was not blessed with patience...it's a struggle for me.

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Etschell · 22 July 2017, 11:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by visualplane

There seems to be a lot of patience in TRF, and it's something I struggle with. Any tips on having more patience?

Why? Life is too short.

incontrol · 22 July 2017, 12:22 PM

On the forum, lots. At home, some. On the road, nearly zero. I had 7 children, I think I used up all the patience God gave me.

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superdog · 22 July 2017, 06:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ejvette

Road rage?? Lol

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Pretty much daily. Yes.

But I don't call it road rage.

I just call it rage.

21 July 2017, 02:15 PM	#1
visualplane "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: New York, NY Watch: 5513 Posts: 1,169	Patience There seems to be a lot of patience in TRF, and it's something I struggle with. Any tips on having more patience?

21 July 2017, 06:50 PM	#3
Rock 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Real Name: Rocky Location: Australia Watch: Grail:Bluesy Posts: 17,660	Patience - in a Forum context - is (for me) about showing respect for the person even though you may not agree with their opinion or stance on something. Unless they have intentionally and maliciously wounded you, they are entitled to their opinion without being attacked. __________________ Cellini 4112. Sub 14060M. DJ 16233. Rotherhams 1847 Pocket-watch. Foundation Member of 'Horologists Anonymous' "Hi, I'm Rocky, and I'm a Horologist..."

21 July 2017, 07:24 PM	#6
Andad 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Real Name: Eddie Location: Australia Watch: A few. Posts: 36,798	Good advice dad. And i have most of them on 'the list'. __________________ E

21 July 2017, 08:08 PM	#7
Psmith "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Real Name: Clive Location: Exoplanet Watch: spring-driven Posts: 38,856	Hurry up and reply already __________________

21 July 2017, 08:37 PM	#8
ejvette 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Real Name: Ed Location: East Hampton NY Watch: me break clays.. Posts: 7,495	Xanax __________________ Rolex•Omega•Breitling•Grand Seiko "The only difference between crazy and eccentric is the size of ones bank account" Anonymous * Card carrying member of TRF's Global Association of Retro-Grouch-Curmudgeons *

21 July 2017, 03:34 PM	#2
Muzz "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2014 Real Name: Steve Location: TO CAD, HCMC VN Watch: MP 18946 Posts: 7,292	Have kids. Nothing will test you like that lol.

21 July 2017, 07:08 PM	#5
lapince "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Mars Watch: 5712 Posts: 11,509	Kids is a good option, but basically try to keep a good nature, even if someone attacks you or makes fun of you don't get mad, I usually laugh about it, until some extent, some even thought I was a troll at one point incapable of really buying the watches I posted about, that changed, so even that made me laugh mostly at the time Just don't take anything personally and you'll be fine, ignore threads or posts without interest for you, if a member for you has a stupid opinion, give yours once, if that don't work go on to the next post/thread, and don't feed the trolls, there are a few, though not many

21 July 2017, 08:54 PM	#10
1William 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: North Carolina Watch: Rolex/Others Posts: 44,749	Many say the patience is a virtue. I say patience is a virtue only when it works to further your overall goals. Many hide behind the patience quote when really they cannot make a decision or are unwilling to act. I can agree with the patience concept above about showing respect but I think it is slightly off in that courtesy and respect are the cornerstone of TRF for me and patience is different. Every insult or slightly off comment does not warrant a response or a return insult. In my time here, it is clear that many of the offenders don't last long as they either don't get the responses they want or they get removed. For me, some of the best TRF members are ones that will accept another persons viewpoint but acknowledge that does not work for them. No reason to knock another member down on something that is a matter of choice.

21 July 2017, 09:03 PM	#12
THC 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Real Name: Tom Location: Mandeville La Watch: 16610M Posts: 10,484	Op must not be married

21 July 2017, 10:32 PM	#14
RolEdx "TRF" Member Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Australia Posts: 6	I just started a new thread asking something similar, but in a different context (it's pending moderator's approval)...

21 July 2017, 10:38 PM	#15
mfer "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Real Name: Mik Location: USA Posts: 13,723	My religious friend who is very patient and has 5 kids told me (not as patient) "Don't wish for patience as god will give you more opportunities to learn." __________________ member#3242

21 July 2017, 10:50 PM	#16
superdog 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Real Name: Seth Location: nj Watch: Omega Posts: 24,697	I have zero patience. Sorry. Cant help. __________________ If happiness is a state of mind, why look anywhere else for it? IG: gsmotorclub IG: thesawcollection (Both mostly just car stuff)

22 July 2017, 04:15 AM	#20
mannyv11 "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Real Name: Manny Location: MA Watch: DD,Sub,GMT,Daytona Posts: 4,448	Try to read a BC thread and you will soon find out how much patience you really have lol!

22 July 2017, 04:46 AM	#21
visualplane "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: New York, NY Watch: 5513 Posts: 1,169	I frequent a few other forums and notice a difference in culture meaning, less "dramah" overall. I'm curious about the other members here, and it's true, it seems there's more success and less drama. I get frustrated with the trolls and "haters" (been going to those forums since 2000). I'm trying to shift my way more towards here in a more positive and mature vibe but habits are hard to break. As far as patience, i'm just trying to learn, and notice how some members can wait years for a watch.

22 July 2017, 04:56 AM	#23
Chewbacca Banned Join Date: May 2012 Real Name: CJ Location: Kashyyyk Watch: Kessel Run Chrono Posts: 21,113	hurry up and close this bloody thread. i have no time for this nonsense. where's the red letter brigade! where i says!!!

22 July 2017, 05:01 AM	#26
visualplane "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: New York, NY Watch: 5513 Posts: 1,169	lol

22 July 2017, 11:09 AM	#27
swils8610 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Sep 2012 Real Name: shannon Location: usa Posts: 8,993	I was not blessed with patience...it's a struggle for me. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro

22 July 2017, 12:22 PM	#29
incontrol "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Real Name: Kevin Location: Somewhere in PA Watch: All of them... Posts: 10,355	On the forum, lots. At home, some. On the road, nearly zero. I had 7 children, I think I used up all the patience God gave me. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ Patek Philippe Rolex

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