Handshakes seem to be gone for good.

[FTX I]

I was watching a movie last night with the missus, and I noticed guys using hugs and handshakes profusely but it seemed like something from the past that is gone for good. What's your take?

[tmmii]

I would be perfectly fine if they didn’t make a comeback. I usually lie for 6 months out of the year saying I’m getting over a cold to avoid them.

[Knappo 1307]

Maybe refer to this thread: https://www.rolexforums.com/showthre...ight=handshake

[FTX I]

Originally Posted by Knappo 1307

Maybe refer to this thread: https://www.rolexforums.com/showthre...ight=handshake

After 7 months I think it's vanishing more and more each day to the point I don't even remember it ever existed.

[JWD531]

I still see many handshakes throughout the day, when I am not working from home. I think it will come back. Although I think people will be okay if someone would rather fist bump, touch elbows, politely nod (or some other non contact option).


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[AzPaul]

Can't speak for anyone else, but in my world, been using the old handshake more and more. Before I extend my hand, I preface it with a genuine, 'You comfortable shaking hands?'. A few people have said no, and that's 100% fine, but most gladly extend theirs, often tossing in an under their breath comment about how ridiculous certain things are.

[wesdaniel]

Good riddance. I've never been comfortable with it and am less so now.

I do miss hugs though.

[214270Explorer]

I never liked handshaking. With COVID it has all but disappeared.

In the past when someone extended a hand I ignored it. Never seemed to upset anyone either.

[Blansky]

While I think this thread will soon careen off the tracks, I've not even met anybody to shake hands with in months. Of course I usually shake hand with my wife when we meet but I meant strangers.

That said, I believe Covid is merely a glitch in time and once a vaccine ends it, whenever that may be, we will slowly go back to normal.

We have social mannerisms and customs for a reason and will probably go back to them.

[330ci]

Once I get back into trade shows, I can’t imagine my customer base would be too happy if I refused a handshake. But I need to practice saying no in a polite way. I deal with too many people to put myself or others at risk unnecessarily. I look forward to it when the powers that be get a better grip on the situation, but until then, socially distanced and masks with regular sanitation of hands will be the only way I conduct in person transactions

[Spectre38]

Maybe it's my age, but I think fist bumps and elbow bumps are rather sad and ridiculous. The history of handshakes is deep rooted in society and to be honest, I kind of miss it. I find myself extending my hand, only to be met with repulsed looks.

"The history of the handshake dates back to the 5th century B.C. in Greece. It was a symbol of peace, showing that neither person was carrying a weapon.

Some say that the actual shaking gesture of the handshake started in Medieval Europe. Knights would shake the hand of others in an attempt to shake loose any hidden weapons."

[Blansky]

Originally Posted by Spectre38

Knights would shake the hand of others in an attempt to shake loose any hidden weapons."

Hence the term "shakedown" which is especially handy in WIS circles.

Can I shake this guy's hand enough to get the clasp to release. Maybe....just maybe.....just one more shake.

I really really want that Daytona.

[Jster]

I never liked shaking hands. As a reluctant conformist I always did it and did it properly - firm grip while looking the other person in the eye - but it's a silly custom that has finally run its course.

[Jster]

Oh and I don't like fist bumps and elbow bumps either, especially elbow bumps.

[tudorbaja27]

I am completely in favor of handshakes!
They don't happen much lately though, and people give me stares when I aim to shake their hand.

I see it as a sign of respect and honor. I might be old-fashioned, though.

[Ferdelious]

I'm still giving handshakes. I won't initiate them but I also won't turn one down. As long as you have hand sanitizer I don't see a problem.

[colpol]

Originally Posted by Jster

I never liked shaking hands. As a reluctant conformist I always did it and did it properly - firm grip while looking the other person in the eye - but it's a silly custom that has finally run its course.

Agree & wish it had run its course but suspect it’ll make its way back

Also agree with guy above regarding fist/ elbow bumps.

[GradyPhilpott]

I've always been a firm believer in a firm handshake and I can't help but look askance at at a man with a "dead-fish" handshake.

However, in these times, I rather like the elbow bump, especially with a little embellishment.

[Blansky]

Originally Posted by Jster

I never liked shaking hands. As a reluctant conformist I always did it and did it properly - firm grip while looking the other person in the eye - but it's a silly custom that has finally run its course.

I really think you underestimate it's history and its relevance.

Essentially it's a sort of "gentlemen's agreement". It's a gesture of allowing someone into your space displaying vulnerability and trust. It creates a bond and bonding. It's sends psychological messages to the other person. It's a sign of respect.

We are essentially animals and we have and make gestures for a reason. The same way a dog would show you trust by rolling on its back and allowing you to rub its belly. His most vulnerable area. He is demonstrating trust.

At one time a handshake sealed a sacred pact and agreement. It was a legal and binding gesture.

[330ci]

nobody uses it judge character anymore? Personally I always found people with weak handshakes to be just that and people with death grip handshakes to be overly compensating for something. Always appreciate a proper handshake with eye contact, shows the person has some class.

[Burlington]

Probably the person coming close enough to breathe on you is more risky than the handshake itself given the frequency of sanitisation these days.

And yes for sure they will come back - maybe in 3-5 years though.

[Knappo 1307]

I have to laugh when I see someone giving another person a elbow bump. You are getting closer to the other person with a elbow bump than a handshake. I'm all for a good ole firm handshake.....

[brandrea]

For get about handshakes, what about the bro hug and kiss on the cheek

[Knappo 1307]

I also have to laugh at the person going around wearing surgical gloves. Whether you have a bare hand or a surgical glove on, you are still touching the same thing, and if you touch your face it's still the same whether you are wearing gloves or not.

[austinp]

Originally Posted by AzPaul

Can't speak for anyone else, but in my world, been using the old handshake more and more. Before I extend my hand, I preface it with a genuine, 'You comfortable shaking hands?'. A few people have said no, and that's 100% fine, but most gladly extend theirs, often tossing in an under their breath comment about how ridiculous certain things are.

Same


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[Letsgodiving]

I have shaken the hands of thousands of people over my lifetime and very very few were what I would consider limp-wristed or whatever so I don't see the whole "judging a man by his handshake" as anything useful. It's an anachronistic vestige of dubious hygiene that should be put to rest and lets not make ourselves look more silly that we already do with fist and elbow bumps can we?

Keep your grimy hands to yourself!

[DonRickles]

Hey, what's with all this touchy feely talk anyway? Handshakes, hugs, massages, limp wrists, elbow bumping.. etc. I'm wondering if this is a dating site?

[Bigblu10]

Originally Posted by DonRickles

Hey, what's with all this touchy feely talk anyway? Handshakes, hugs, massages, limp wrists, elbow bumping.. etc. I'm wondering if this is a dating site?

All we need is your ear to ear bright smile Don!

[DonRickles]

Originally Posted by Bigblu10

All we need is your ear to ear bright smile Don!

My pleasure! You need a hug too?

[mannyv11]

Originally Posted by Knappo 1307

I have to laugh when I see someone giving another person a elbow bump. You are getting closer to the other person with a elbow bump than a handshake. I'm all for a good ole firm handshake.....

while I agree with you a bit on that one, it is also tough to stick your elbow in your mouth lol.

Hope you get what I am saying when I have seen people shake hands then 5 minutes later they are eating a piece of bread at a restaurant without washing their hands etc.

elbow bump / fist bump is a much safer approach right now.

I do see the hand shake coming back though as soon as the covid stuff is gone - at least until the next pandemic