How do you let someone know you like their watch?

[austinp]

I love giving compliments and most people enjoy getting them.

Recently I stopped to talk to a guy at a Tesla Charging station about EVs. It was a nice conversation then I noticed a beautiful light blue RM on his wrist and I had to mention it. It was the first I’d seen in the wild. Talked about 15 minutes or so. Turns out he lives in my neighborhood and we planned to golf in a couple weeks. New Friend.


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[JoeJoeBobo]

This thread blows the whole enjoying and wearing of the watch for thee ideology out of the water doesn’t it.

Sure I have discussions with clients and friends about mutual watch appreciation all the time but not engaging strangers ever and don’t expect to condone it coming my way either.

[superdog]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

This thread blows the whole enjoying and wearing of the watch for thee ideology out of the water doesn’t it.

Sure I have discussions with clients and friends about mutual watch appreciation all the time but not engaging strangers ever and don’t expect to condone it coming my way either.

So if someone casually complimented your watch, you’d do what?

[beshannon]

Originally Posted by rolex75216

Is there a proper etiquette that you use? Do you just come out and say, "Hey, I like your watch!"

No, I do not bother strangers.

Would you comment on a strangers shoes, clothing or car?

[JoeJoeBobo]

Originally Posted by superdog

So if someone casually complimented your watch, you’d do what?

Same thing I would do if they complimented my car, shoes, clothes or my wife…nod and walk on. Any other form of unsolicited acknowledgment from a random stranger in passing is not required. Full stop.

Strangers who I come across daily on the golf course, at social event or a casino table for examples where dialogue has transpired are of course treated different.

P.S. selling a watch on the spot not offered for sale to a random stranger reeks of desperation.

[East Bay Rider]

Never at the urinal.

[330ci]

Originally Posted by Star Ferry

I would suggest not saying anything. If they’re anything like the typical poster in the TRF Rolex General forum, their response will be some combination of smug, condescending, and dismissive. The average person with a pricey watch is a loser trying to compensate for low self esteem, so 9 times out of 10 you will walk away regretting the interaction.

My favorite was telling a guy "nice explorer!"
He goes "what?"
I replied "I like your watch!"
He responded "oh its a Rolex"

definitely happens


I have complimented watches that have lead to good conversation though, I met an older gentleman in an airport about 10 years ago wearing a 1675 he bought in the military because its what the astronauts had and he told me a story of how he lost the original bezel inside the cockpit of an airplane he was training in and how he's worn it every day for 40+ years. It seems rare that people share the passion more than it being an expensive watch; but I usually try to find out either way.

[denmanproject]

Lick your finger and rub it on the crystal of the others person watch, its like a secret code to let them know you admire their choice in timepiece

[minute_man]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

P.S. selling a watch on the spot not offered for sale to a random stranger reeks of desperation.

On whose part?

To the original question, I don't talk to strangers...

[Rico_Brasole]

Originally Posted by rolex75216

Is there a proper etiquette that you use? Do you just come out and say, "Hey, I like your watch!"

Depends on the situation. If it’s a stranger in passing, never. If I’m at a party I’ll just comment “cook watch” and let the conversation flow from there


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[superdog]

I can’t help but feel bad for those that refuse to talk to strangers. Full stop.

Sure, it can be scary meeting new people. And things can go badly in the wrong circumstances.

But meeting new people is a truly wonderful experience in life. If we are always in our safe little bubble of comfort we miss out on so much.

I do tend to agree that in todays world, people are disappointing. But imho, that’s because of a lack of communication and a complete disregard for others. The rise of social media has, it appears, destroyed our ability to connect. And to appreciate others for their differences and their uniqueness.

Some of the best conversations I’ve ever had, are with complete strangers. I’ve met new friends, I’ve gotten business, and I’ve opened my mind by talking with strangers.

It all starts with a simple opener and there is nothing better than a genuine compliment.

If someone is going to go out if their way to be nice to me, I will be nice in return, without question. Energy begets energy. And something as small as a smile can turn another’s day around. The same holds true for negative experiences.

Ever since I was a little kid it came naturally to me. I simply enjoy making other people happy. A compliment, or a nice response to a compliment can do exactly that.

I’ve learned, and I really try hard not to judge, but Ive learned that people’s actions and reactions tend to tell me a lot about them. And on the rare occasion I get a negative e reaction, I realize I’m likely better off not interacting with the further. Of course, I’ve been wrong there too. And even the grumpiest of curmudgeons has proven to be the greatest of all individuals.

Clearly we are all different in this regard. And it’s the differences that make us special and unique

[JoeJoeBobo]

Originally Posted by superdog

I can’t help but feel bad for those that refuse to talk to strangers. Full stop.

Sure, it can be scary meeting new people. And things can go badly in the wrong circumstances.

But meeting new people is a truly wonderful experience in life. If we are always in our safe little bubble of comfort we miss out on so much.

I do tend to agree that in todays world, people are disappointing. But imho, that’s because of a lack of communication and a complete disregard for others. The rise of social media has, it appears, destroyed our ability to connect. And to appreciate others for their differences and their uniqueness.

Some of the best conversations I’ve ever had, are with complete strangers. I’ve met new friends, I’ve gotten business, and I’ve opened my mind by talking with strangers.

It all starts with a simple opener and there is nothing better than a genuine compliment.

If someone is going to go out if their way to be nice to me, I will be nice in return, without question. Energy begets energy. And something as small as a smile can turn another’s day around. The same holds true for negative experiences.

Ever since I was a little kid it came naturally to me. I simply enjoy making other people happy. A compliment, or a nice response to a compliment can do exactly that.

I’ve learned, and I really try hard not to judge, but Ive learned that people’s actions and reactions tend to tell me a lot about them. And on the rare occasion I get a negative e reaction, I realize I’m likely better off not interacting with the further. Of course, I’ve been wrong there too. And even the grumpiest of curmudgeons has proven to be the greatest of all individuals.

Clearly we are all different in this regard. And it’s the differences that make us special and unique

Lol, passively judging and making assumptions while putting out to the world how positive, open minded and zen one is in the same post hopefully was rewarding for you. Thanks for the lesson.

[superdog]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

Lol, passively judging and making assumptions while putting out to the world how positive, open minded and zen one is in the same post hopefully was rewarding for you. Thanks for the lesson.

It was.

And you are welcome. I hope it helped.

[ROlesorusLEX]

Originally Posted by East Bay Rider

Never at the urinal.

Only at the urinal.

"Don't try to shake it, just nod your head,

Breathe in, breathe out, nice watch"

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[MrGoat]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

Lol, passively judging and making assumptions while putting out to the world how positive, open minded and zen one is in the same post hopefully was rewarding for you. Thanks for the lesson.

Feeling bad for someone is not passing judgement. It’s sympathy. It is also subjective because what makes one happy or not is fluid between each and every one of us.

Seth did not judge in his post IMO, he just expressed his sympathy for those that don’t see life like he does.


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[JoeJoeBobo]

Originally Posted by superdog

It was.

And you are welcome. I hope it helped.

Cool, curios to read what you flex and passively,humbly or outwardly brag about next.

Since it was free it had about the same affect =0.

[superdog]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

Cool, curios to read what you flex and passively,humbly or outwardly brag about next.

Since it was free it had about the same affect =0.

You won’t have too wait long. I’m sure I’ll post something again soon.

Feel better for your “dig”. I truly hope so.

[JoeJoeBobo]

Originally Posted by superdog

You won’t have too wait long. I’m sure I’ll post something again soon.

Feel better for your “dig”. I truly hope so.

Maybe the same as you felt about your sympathy one or maybe not. Have a nice day.

Go Bengals

Originally Posted by MrGoat

Feeling bad for someone is not passing judgement. It’s sympathy. It is also subjective because what makes one happy or not is fluid between each and every one of us.

Seth did not judge in his post IMO, he just expressed his sympathy for those that don’t see life like he does.


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Clear your messages.

[superdog]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

Maybe the same as you felt about your sympathy one or maybe not. Have a nice day.

Go Bengals



Clear your messages.

Indeed. Go Bengals!!

[MrGoat]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

Maybe the same as you felt about your sympathy one or maybe not. Have a nice day.

Go Bengals



Clear your messages.

So you can send me more unsolicited PM’s because I disagree with you?


No thanks.


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[JoeJoeBobo]

Originally Posted by MrGoat

So you can send me more unsolicited PM’s because I disagree with you?


No thanks.


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Aren’t all PM’s unsolicited except of course the one I was just giving you heads up about? Don’t misrepresent here on open forum as I saved all of them.

All of mine which you replied to without consternation, sometimes agreement, sometimes with apology for misreading.

You to have a nice day.

[MrGoat]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

Aren’t all PM’s unsolicited except of course the one I was just giving you heads up about?

When we have no reason to communicate privately, it’s unsolicited. Especially when it’s directly related to comments I’ve made publicly and would fully expect a public response.

YMMV.


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[RichardBartlett]

Originally Posted by superdog

I can’t help but feel bad for those that refuse to talk to strangers. Full stop.

Sure, it can be scary meeting new people. And things can go badly in the wrong circumstances.

But meeting new people is a truly wonderful experience in life. If we are always in our safe little bubble of comfort we miss out on so much.

I do tend to agree that in todays world, people are disappointing. But imho, that’s because of a lack of communication and a complete disregard for others. The rise of social media has, it appears, destroyed our ability to connect. And to appreciate others for their differences and their uniqueness.

Some of the best conversations I’ve ever had, are with complete strangers. I’ve met new friends, I’ve gotten business, and I’ve opened my mind by talking with strangers.

It all starts with a simple opener and there is nothing better than a genuine compliment.

If someone is going to go out if their way to be nice to me, I will be nice in return, without question. Energy begets energy. And something as small as a smile can turn another’s day around. The same holds true for negative experiences.

Ever since I was a little kid it came naturally to me. I simply enjoy making other people happy. A compliment, or a nice response to a compliment can do exactly that.

I’ve learned, and I really try hard not to judge, but Ive learned that people’s actions and reactions tend to tell me a lot about them. And on the rare occasion I get a negative e reaction, I realize I’m likely better off not interacting with the further. Of course, I’ve been wrong there too. And even the grumpiest of curmudgeons has proven to be the greatest of all individuals.

Clearly we are all different in this regard. And it’s the differences that make us special and unique

What I love about the Americans is their openness and willingness to open and engage in conversation.
Most (but not all apparently) are like this. It's much to be admired imho

[Blansky]

Some people here are certainly revealing a lot about themselves.

[sickened1]

Originally Posted by Blansky

A lot of people here are certainly revealing a lot about themselves.

This is me reading this thread.

[MrGoat]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

Aren’t all PM’s unsolicited except of course the one I was just giving you heads up about? Don’t misrepresent here on open forum as I saved all of them.

All of mine which you replied to without consternation, sometimes agreement, sometimes with apology for misreading.

You to have a nice day.

Misrepresent what if I may ask? Because you and I agreed on the first unsolicited PM you sent me? You sent me a PM agreeing with my side of an argument with some guy that I don’t even remember what the argument was. I believe I said “I don’t always agree with your comments but thank you”. I also probably said some words that will get both of us banned from the forum if you post screenshots of the private messages. Feel free to though if you believe they will help your argument about a completely different topic than the one we are on now.

Also, your PM was unsolicited then but in agreement with my stance in a what I believe was locked thread. It’s a completely different circumstance than sending me PM’s regarding my public comments in disagreement to your public comments in a thread that is still open.

Also, please refer to my response in the last thread you attempted to call me out on about our 1 previous PM conversation.

Then please sit back and think to yourself, you’ve brought up our PRIVATE conversation twice and tried to make it public. Why the hell would anyone have a private conversation with you when there is obviously a pattern?


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[superdog]

Originally Posted by RichardBartlett

What I love about the Americans is their openness and willingness to open and engage in conversation.
Most (but not all apparently) are like this. It's much to be admired imho

Thank you. I appreciate this comment. I’ve personally always been an open book. Often times, too much so. I get it.

And while some folks can see some of my comments as a humble, or outright brag, I think that’s more on them, than it is me. I’m simply sharing.

I’ve shared here about anxiety, insecurity, heartbreak, and failures. Heck, recently I shared that I see a therapist. Just this morning I shared how I felt envy for those that find true partners in life as this is something that has sadly eluded me.

I also share my wins. And my joys.

I have minimal shame. Like Popeye, I am who I am. And I try to get better everyday. I can’t change how other people feel, and I don’t want to. I don’t blame people that don’t like my personal style. I get it. I truly do.

[JoeJoeBobo]

Originally Posted by MrGoat

Misrepresent what if I may ask? Because you and I agreed on the first unsolicited PM you sent me? You sent me a PM agreeing with my side of an argument with some guy that I don’t even remember what the argument was. I believe I said “I don’t always agree with your comments but thank you”. I also probably said some words that will get both of us banned from the forum if you post screenshots of the private messages. Feel free to though if you believe they will help your argument about a completely different topic than the one we are on now.

Also, your PM was unsolicited then but in agreement with my stance in a what I believe was locked thread. It’s a completely different circumstance than sending me PM’s regarding my public comments in disagreement to your public comments in a thread that is still open.

Also, please refer to my response in the last thread you attempted to call me out on about our 1 previous PM conversation.

Then please sit back and think to yourself, you’ve brought up our PRIVATE conversation twice and tried to make it public. Why the hell would anyone have a private conversation with you when there is obviously a pattern?


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First off the original comment on open forum from me was your misinterpretation from another poster on World Cup thread about private messages he and I had.

He then posted about them on open thread asking why I had a polite and courteous PM message to him but a different tone in open which you put nose into incorrectly.

Secondly you again misread the inference from Seth quoting “ full stop” which was directed at me passively which he later agreed, again you poked nose in without reading correctly. So it is in my right to mention our PM’s but never exposed near as much here in open as you!

Peace!

P.S. I have no problem with Seth, he seems like a pretty decent guy.

[cartesian Product]

Originally Posted by RichardBartlett

What I love about the Americans is their openness and willingness to open and engage in conversation.
Most (but not all apparently) are like this.

I am an exception outside of my home. Everyone hates me and the feeling is mutual.

[superdog]

Originally Posted by JoeJoeBobo

First off the original comment on open forum from me was your misinterpretation from another poster on World Cup thread about private messages he and I had.

He then posted about them on open thread asking why I had a polite and courteous PM message to him but a different tone in open which you put nose into incorrectly.

Secondly you again misread the inference from Seth quoting “ full stop” which wa directed at me passively which he later agreed. Bu again you poked nose in without reading correctly. So it is in my right to mention our PM’s but never exposed near as much here in open as you!

Peace!

For what it’s worth, my original intention was not to judge or insult.

Was I singling out your original “full stop” comment, yes. Yes I was. But it was merely me trying to make a point.

And then I was just going with the flow. Kind of like that momentum thing I mentioned. Energy begets energy.

If it appeared harsh, you have my sincere apology. I let the momentum and the tone guide my comments.

I truly had no intention of “getting into it” and again, you have my sincere apology.

That said, I do stand behind my sentiment of the message. I simply should have been kinder in my presentation.

Edit to say: this is my trying to stop the momentum and change the energy. I hope it works.