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BristolCavendish · 20 July 2017, 05:56 AM

Case in point: A second cousin (aged 47/divorced once) is currently exploring/considering re-marriage. His first marriage was to a woman 7 years his senior (he was 28 and she was 35 at the time). The first 7-8 years seemed to go OK but later down the road, he began to grow weary of her controlling instincts and family members used to joke that he had married a 'mother figure'. It all came to a boil by the time he had reached his early 40s and when they finally got divorced, he used John Lennon's lyrics/quote, "I just had to get away."

Fast forward to 2017. He is currently dating two women. One is 27 and the other is a bit more closer to his age (around 45 or so). The 27 year-old is an absolute stone fox and very responsive when it comes to sharing physical intimacy. The older woman is a divorcee with two 20-something children and a bit more reserved, preferring quiet dinners, wine country tastings and weekend excursions to his beach house.

His dilemma is that on an intellectual and conversational level, the 27 year-old falls far short regarding any frame of reference to his interests and tastes in music/art/movies etc. and has very little awareness of the historical and cultural events that took place during his formative years as an adolescent and young adult. This is to be expected. The older woman provides more of a comfort zone in these areas but in her, he sees reflections of his previous marriage + he does not want to deal with any adult children from her earlier marriage interfering with his life. Also understandable. The guy loves to quote rock music and in this particular example/case, he quoted Bob Dylan's lyrics, "Don't you understand? It's not my problem." BTW, he is childless from his first marriage.

When asked for my opinion, I reluctantly advocated the younger woman even though there are no guarantees in life or interpersonal relationships. At least he would be starting off with a clean slate. Besides, there's always Viagra/Cialis and in the event they do separate/divorce by the time he reaches his sixties, he can always start over again and maybe by that time a woman in her mid-late 40s won't seem that old anymore.

Swiss Mad! · 20 July 2017, 06:01 AM

Err, I thought this was going to be one of those "Would you make this trade" type threads..

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mannyv11 · 20 July 2017, 06:03 AM

my god your posts are terrible.

mannyv11 · 20 July 2017, 06:03 AM

oh ya IBTL

Canefan1 · 20 July 2017, 06:04 AM

Who's got the most money?

Yzord · 20 July 2017, 06:07 AM

Which one is the sweetest?

Magwitch · 20 July 2017, 06:08 AM

Marry who you like and don't worry so much about resale value.

Chewbacca · 20 July 2017, 06:11 AM

TRF officially incorporated male enhancement pills into a thread.

mannyv11 · 20 July 2017, 06:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chewbacca

TRF officially incorporated male enhancement pills into a thread.

only BC's threads would ever get into that type of stuff on TRF

Tony64 · 20 July 2017, 06:25 AM

Nicely done BC, nicely done.

(slow clap)

cruise_bone · 20 July 2017, 06:29 AM

Why marry either one?
Why not keep them both?

MonBK · 20 July 2017, 06:33 AM

A second cousin?

What happened to your neighbor?

SDRider · 20 July 2017, 06:39 AM

So, how did you meet these women and which one is less shallow than you are?

FTX I · 20 July 2017, 06:40 AM

It all depends on the expiry date.

Canefan1 · 20 July 2017, 06:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MonBK

A second cousin?

What happened to your neighbor?

Jimbogigolo · 20 July 2017, 07:13 AM

Sex before anything.

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Moggo · 20 July 2017, 07:29 AM

If you need to ask a forums opinion then neither

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Wesley Crusher · 20 July 2017, 07:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BristolCavendish

His dilemma is that on an intellectual and conversational level, the 27 year-old falls far short regarding any frame of reference to his interests and tastes in music/art/movies etc

What about romance novels?

mfer · 20 July 2017, 07:55 AM

I gave you the benefit of the doubt before but this is getting to rediculous to be anything other than fabrication.

Kneecough · 20 July 2017, 07:57 AM

Congrats on 1000th post!

blufinz52 · 20 July 2017, 08:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MonBK

A second cousin?

What happened to your neighbor?

I don't care who you are...this is funny!!

blufinz52 · 20 July 2017, 08:05 AM

Just to be clear...is it a 2nd cousin, or a 1st cousin once removed?

TheVTCGuy · 20 July 2017, 08:16 AM

I like tacos

swils8610 · 20 July 2017, 08:18 AM

I call bulls**t on this made up tale.

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TheVTCGuy · 20 July 2017, 08:19 AM

I said: I LIKE TACOS !!!!!

Rootbeer · 20 July 2017, 08:25 AM

In the U.K. The average wait in the ER was 3.5hrs at my local hospital. If you take Viagra you are supposed to attend if you still have a bothersome trouser issue after 4hrs. I often wondered if our ER waiting room was clogged by middle aged men hanging out 'just in case'.

Runnin' Rebel · 20 July 2017, 08:28 AM

Don't feed troll

Dyim · 20 July 2017, 08:50 AM

Need pics.

hugs · 20 July 2017, 10:50 AM

Show him a Patek Calatrava and a blinged out gold Rolex and ask which he prefers. I think this is quite a similar comparison and would give an idea of his values

Old Expat Beast · 20 July 2017, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Kneecough

Congrats on 1000th post!

It's actually a quite a lot more than that, if you include all the removed threads he started.

20 July 2017, 05:56 AM	#1
BristolCavendish Banned Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: United States Posts: 1,864	Advantages of Marrying an Older/Younger Woman? Case in point: A second cousin (aged 47/divorced once) is currently exploring/considering re-marriage. His first marriage was to a woman 7 years his senior (he was 28 and she was 35 at the time). The first 7-8 years seemed to go OK but later down the road, he began to grow weary of her controlling instincts and family members used to joke that he had married a 'mother figure'. It all came to a boil by the time he had reached his early 40s and when they finally got divorced, he used John Lennon's lyrics/quote, "I just had to get away." Fast forward to 2017. He is currently dating two women. One is 27 and the other is a bit more closer to his age (around 45 or so). The 27 year-old is an absolute stone fox and very responsive when it comes to sharing physical intimacy. The older woman is a divorcee with two 20-something children and a bit more reserved, preferring quiet dinners, wine country tastings and weekend excursions to his beach house. His dilemma is that on an intellectual and conversational level, the 27 year-old falls far short regarding any frame of reference to his interests and tastes in music/art/movies etc. and has very little awareness of the historical and cultural events that took place during his formative years as an adolescent and young adult. This is to be expected. The older woman provides more of a comfort zone in these areas but in her, he sees reflections of his previous marriage + he does not want to deal with any adult children from her earlier marriage interfering with his life. Also understandable. The guy loves to quote rock music and in this particular example/case, he quoted Bob Dylan's lyrics, "Don't you understand? It's not my problem." BTW, he is childless from his first marriage. When asked for my opinion, I reluctantly advocated the younger woman even though there are no guarantees in life or interpersonal relationships. At least he would be starting off with a clean slate. Besides, there's always Viagra/Cialis and in the event they do separate/divorce by the time he reaches his sixties, he can always start over again and maybe by that time a woman in her mid-late 40s won't seem that old anymore.

20 July 2017, 06:01 AM	#2
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Canefan1 Banned Join Date: Apr 2017 Location: Homestead Posts: 1,247	Who's got the most money?

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20 July 2017, 06:25 AM	#10
Tony64 "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 2,796	Nicely done BC, nicely done. (slow clap)

20 July 2017, 06:29 AM	#11
cruise_bone "TRF" Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Real Name: John Location: Atlanta Posts: 982	Why marry either one? Why not keep them both?

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MonBK Banned Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Kingstown Posts: 58,281	A second cousin? What happened to your neighbor?

20 July 2017, 06:39 AM	#13
SDRider Banned Join Date: May 2017 Real Name: Julian Location: San Diego, CA Watch: Rolex 116613LB Posts: 1,908	So, how did you meet these women and which one is less shallow than you are?

20 July 2017, 06:40 AM	#14
FTX I "TRF" Member Join Date: Feb 2013 Real Name: Flavio Location: N/A Posts: 14,652	It all depends on the expiry date.

20 July 2017, 07:13 AM	#16
Jimbogigolo "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Real Name: Jim Location: NJ Watch: Rolex Daytona W&B Posts: 1,527	Sex before anything. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro

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20 July 2017, 07:57 AM	#20
Kneecough "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: Florida Posts: 1,792	Congrats on 1000th post!

20 July 2017, 08:05 AM	#22
blufinz52 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 X2 Pledge Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Real Name: Mike Location: NH Watch: 116400GV 124060 Posts: 1,171	Just to be clear...is it a 2nd cousin, or a 1st cousin once removed?

20 July 2017, 08:16 AM	#23
TheVTCGuy Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Real Name: Paul Location: San Diego Watch: 126619LB Posts: 21,540	I like tacos

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swils8610 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Sep 2012 Real Name: shannon Location: usa Posts: 8,993	I call bulls**t on this made up tale. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro

20 July 2017, 08:19 AM	#25
TheVTCGuy Banned Join Date: Jul 2008 Real Name: Paul Location: San Diego Watch: 126619LB Posts: 21,540	I said: I LIKE TACOS !!!!!

20 July 2017, 08:25 AM	#26
Rootbeer "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Real Name: Sam Location: USA Watch: Milgauss GV Posts: 534	In the U.K. The average wait in the ER was 3.5hrs at my local hospital. If you take Viagra you are supposed to attend if you still have a bothersome trouser issue after 4hrs. I often wondered if our ER waiting room was clogged by middle aged men hanging out 'just in case'.

20 July 2017, 08:50 AM	#28
Dyim "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: Canada Posts: 2,230	Need pics.

20 July 2017, 10:50 AM	#29
hugs "TRF" Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: UK bad teeth etc Watch: Rolex and Tudor Posts: 1,001	Show him a Patek Calatrava and a blinged out gold Rolex and ask which he prefers. I think this is quite a similar comparison and would give an idea of his values

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