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nikkstokes · 4 April 2021, 08:39 PM

Thank you for sharing and God Bless.

MrGoat · 4 April 2021, 09:05 PM

The most outstanding news I have heard in a while! Thank you so much for sharing, it made my Easter Sunday morning! You’re obviously a great father, it’s sounds both of your boys have great hearts and you’ve instilled confidence in them. I wish you and your boys the best and please keep us updated on his new journey!

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Watchflair · 4 April 2021, 09:57 PM

That’s incredible. You did your best and sounds like you raised an outstanding young man.

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brandrea · 4 April 2021, 11:04 PM

Congratulations Paul, this is fantastic news indeed: cheers: I am truly happy for you and your family. I hope he loves the job and each day he gains more and more confident

Beo3 · 4 April 2021, 11:18 PM

What a terrific story, and I thank you Paul for sharing it with the masses.

Your son is truly a special person, and you sir are also are a wonderful and strong father.

CFR · 4 April 2021, 11:23 PM

Paul, this is so wonderful and brought me near tears. Don't underestimate the role you played in your son's progress. Wishing you and your son all the best!

Doug5551 · 4 April 2021, 11:56 PM

Many thanks for sharing your story.

I am retired and preparing to start a job I went out and found myself at AMC movie theater.

Just wanted to pass on to you and anyone else reading this that AMC seems to have some pretty amazing programs for people with special needs designed to help them succeed. It seems like a great thing to me.

Many congrats to you and your son!!

Malum · 5 April 2021, 01:12 AM

You absolutely should be proud . Love to hear people overcome life’s challenges.

Spectre38 · 5 April 2021, 02:56 AM

Thank you all, honestly. My son has faced a lot in his 23 years but is determined to put himself on a better path. He has taught me so much in regards to patience and perseverance. Thank you all for your support.

RichM · 5 April 2021, 02:59 AM

Congratulations to your son on his great accomplishment and to his Dad for always being there for him. Thanks for sharing your story.

Only goes to show doctors don’t always get right, in your sons case, I’m glad they were wrong.

Rashid.bk · 5 April 2021, 03:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Spectre38

First let me give a brief background ... on my son.

Born with a condition called Gastroschisis ( stomach and intestines on the outside ), delivered at 4.2 lbs, spent first 47 days in Neonatal ICU and had 6 surgeries to put him together.

At 22 months, diagnosed with Autism. At 10, we were told he would never be independent and would require care for life. At 12, his mom couldn't deal with it and left taking his younger brother.

It has been the two of us for the last 11 years together. He does pretty well but still has some pretty limiting issues.

Fast forward to today... He got up and took a shower and started getting ready as if he was going somewhere. I asked what was going on and he replied " I didn't want to tell you dad, I wanted it to be a surprise.... I am going to work."

Without my help or knowledge, he managed to get a job at a local convenience store. His brother helped him with some of the details. Together, they ordered his social security card, filled out the paperwork, and attended the interviews.

This may not seem like a big deal to many here on the forum, but this is life changing for him... and me. I couldn't be prouder. He is currently working his first shift ( 3 hours ) and I am not to go into the store. I am busting at the seams, but am respecting his wishes.

Just thought I would share.

Wow, I saw this thread and didn’t think much of it but today I decided to take a look and see.
I’m lost for words. Incredible story, God bless you and your family. I wish him the utmost success and health.

rmags · 5 April 2021, 03:22 AM

Wow...Outstanding story and thank you for sharing!

Db7566 · 5 April 2021, 03:47 AM

Thank you for sharing. Your boys are lucky to have you.

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shaunylw · 5 April 2021, 04:52 AM

Congrats, that a huge day!

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RTG · 5 April 2021, 05:40 AM

That is awesome Paul. Thank you for posting. We all need reminders as to what is important and how blessed most of us are.

SWS65SM · 5 April 2021, 05:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spectre38

First let me give a brief background ... on my son.

Born with a condition called Gastroschisis ( stomach and intestines on the outside ), delivered at 4.2 lbs, spent first 47 days in Neonatal ICU and had 6 surgeries to put him together.

At 22 months, diagnosed with Autism. At 10, we were told he would never be independent and would require care for life. At 12, his mom couldn't deal with it and left taking his younger brother.

It has been the two of us for the last 11 years together. He does pretty well but still has some pretty limiting issues.

Fast forward to today... He got up and took a shower and started getting ready as if he was going somewhere. I asked what was going on and he replied " I didn't want to tell you dad, I wanted it to be a surprise.... I am going to work."

Without my help or knowledge, he managed to get a job at a local convenience store. His brother helped him with some of the details. Together, they ordered his social security card, filled out the paperwork, and attended the interviews.

This may not seem like a big deal to many here on the forum, but this is life changing for him... and me. I couldn't be prouder. He is currently working his first shift ( 3 hours ) and I am not to go into the store. I am busting at the seams, but am respecting his wishes.

Just thought I would share.

I know I'm a day late to this, but my god am I glad that I clicked in - it is THE BEST post I have read on here, period.

Having seen a friend family raising an autistic child over the years, you have my upmost respect for having to go it alone and for you/your son to reach where you are today, my heart is so warm, I have no other words... Thank you for sharing this incredible story/accomplishment, and wish you guys the best

Happy Easter

2000-NJDEVILS · 5 April 2021, 05:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spectre38

First let me give a brief background ... on my son.

Born with a condition called Gastroschisis ( stomach and intestines on the outside ), delivered at 4.2 lbs, spent first 47 days in Neonatal ICU and had 6 surgeries to put him together.

At 22 months, diagnosed with Autism. At 10, we were told he would never be independent and would require care for life. At 12, his mom couldn't deal with it and left taking his younger brother.

It has been the two of us for the last 11 years together. He does pretty well but still has some pretty limiting issues.

Fast forward to today... He got up and took a shower and started getting ready as if he was going somewhere. I asked what was going on and he replied " I didn't want to tell you dad, I wanted it to be a surprise.... I am going to work."

Without my help or knowledge, he managed to get a job at a local convenience store. His brother helped him with some of the details. Together, they ordered his social security card, filled out the paperwork, and attended the interviews.

This may not seem like a big deal to many here on the forum, but this is life changing for him... and me. I couldn't be prouder. He is currently working his first shift ( 3 hours ) and I am not to go into the store. I am busting at the seams, but am respecting his wishes.

Just thought I would share.

LOVE IT!
Great Easter story!
Very uplifting - God bless you and your sons.....

mschafer · 5 April 2021, 07:26 AM

Amazing. I love this story and shows what’s possible. What a great life. Thank you for sharing.

datejustrms · 5 April 2021, 07:37 AM

That is fantastic Paul! You must be so proud of him. What a great post by you!

Dr. Robert · 5 April 2021, 07:59 AM

Who's cutting onions here?
This is the best incoming news!
Congratulations to your son & also to you

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slawa · 5 April 2021, 08:27 AM

congrats to you and your son, stay strong and positive.

Burlington · 5 April 2021, 08:35 AM

This is exceptionally heartwarming to read and brings hope I’m sure to many

polaris72 · 5 April 2021, 08:43 AM

This is the reason I am coming back to TRF, to read about people like you which gives inspiration and hope to others. You are a good dad with great kids.

1st amg · 5 April 2021, 09:06 AM

This is such an incredible achievement and this is absolutely the place for you to share such an amazing feel good story. I am so happy for you and your boys. The fact your other son and this sibling stuck together brings tears to my eyes after all you both went through. God bless you guys!

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Boothroyd · 5 April 2021, 09:14 AM

Fantastic news and what a great dad you are! You should be very proud!

Chloe&Harley · 5 April 2021, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by austinp

Wonderful story. Thank you for sharing it. The world needs more stories like this.

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100% agree

slimboy1974 · 5 April 2021, 09:25 AM

Lovely you must be so so proud

RaZCaL · 5 April 2021, 09:55 AM

Incredible story! This brought a tear to my eyes. Congratulations to your son and your family. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt post.

RW16610 · 5 April 2021, 09:55 AM

This is such an incredible, inspiring story. Thank you so much for sharing this as it's certainly the feel good moment of the day for me. You're amazing for all you've done both directly and indirectly to help make this happen. Very proud of him!

Ecandrew · 5 April 2021, 10:56 AM

From one autism dad to another: I’m proud of you both.

4 April 2021, 09:57 PM	#63
Watchflair 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: May 2012 Real Name: Jim Location: Westchester NY Watch: 116500 116518LN Posts: 5,874	Best incoming ever... non watch related. That’s incredible. You did your best and sounds like you raised an outstanding young man. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ Remember what matters. Value everyday

5 April 2021, 02:56 AM	#69
Spectre38 "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2020 Real Name: Paul Location: Out West Watch: and be amazed. Posts: 1,552	Thank you all, honestly. My son has faced a lot in his 23 years but is determined to put himself on a better path. He has taught me so much in regards to patience and perseverance. Thank you all for your support. __________________ Card Carrying Member of the Global Association of Retro Grouch Curmudgeons

5 April 2021, 02:59 AM	#70
RichM 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Real Name: Richie Location: "Nowhere Man" Watch: out now,take care! Posts: 28,172	Congratulations to your son on his great accomplishment and to his Dad for always being there for him. Thanks for sharing your story. Only goes to show doctors don’t always get right, in your sons case, I’m glad they were wrong. __________________ "I love to work at nothing all day" TRF #139960

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RTG 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: USA Watch: Sky-Dweller Posts: 2,423	That is awesome Paul. Thank you for posting. We all need reminders as to what is important and how blessed most of us are. __________________ Current Rotation: Explorer II 226570 White, Sinn 30.06, Sky-Dweller 326934 Blue, Deepsea Challenge 126067, Tudor FXD Red Bull Chrono Wife's Rotation: GMT-Master II 126710BLNR Jubilee, Moser Heritage Dual Time, Swatch MoMa, Cartier De Santos Official Member "WIS-CON" Las Vegas International GTG 2019

4 April 2021, 08:39 PM	#61
nikkstokes "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: PA Posts: 23	Thank you for sharing and God Bless.

4 April 2021, 09:05 PM	#62
MrGoat 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Jun 2020 Real Name: Goat Location: Southwest Florida Watch: 16613 Posts: 4,786	The most outstanding news I have heard in a while! Thank you so much for sharing, it made my Easter Sunday morning! You’re obviously a great father, it’s sounds both of your boys have great hearts and you’ve instilled confidence in them. I wish you and your boys the best and please keep us updated on his new journey! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

4 April 2021, 11:04 PM	#64
brandrea 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Real Name: Brian (TBone) Location: canada Watch: es make me smile Posts: 73,587	Congratulations Paul, this is fantastic news indeed: cheers: I am truly happy for you and your family. I hope he loves the job and each day he gains more and more confident

4 April 2021, 11:18 PM	#65
Beo3 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 X2 Pledge Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Real Name: Eddie Location: NY Watch: Too Many Posts: 17,903	What a terrific story, and I thank you Paul for sharing it with the masses. Your son is truly a special person, and you sir are also are a wonderful and strong father.

4 April 2021, 11:23 PM	#66
CFR 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: US Posts: 1,058	Paul, this is so wonderful and brought me near tears. Don't underestimate the role you played in your son's progress. Wishing you and your son all the best!

4 April 2021, 11:56 PM	#67
Doug5551 "TRF" Member Join Date: May 2020 Location: Los Angeles, Cali Posts: 362	Many thanks for sharing your story. I am retired and preparing to start a job I went out and found myself at AMC movie theater. Just wanted to pass on to you and anyone else reading this that AMC seems to have some pretty amazing programs for people with special needs designed to help them succeed. It seems like a great thing to me. Many congrats to you and your son!!

5 April 2021, 01:12 AM	#68
Malum "TRF" Member Join Date: Aug 2019 Real Name: Kurt Location: Coachella Valley Watch: SD43 D-Blue Posts: 3,998	You absolutely should be proud . Love to hear people overcome life’s challenges.

5 April 2021, 03:22 AM	#72
rmags "TRF" Member Join Date: Sep 2020 Location: CA Watch: 15210 & 124060 Posts: 519	Wow...Outstanding story and thank you for sharing!

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shaunylw "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Here Posts: 4,504	Congrats, that a huge day! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

5 April 2021, 07:26 AM	#78
mschafer "TRF" Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: New York Posts: 971	Amazing. I love this story and shows what’s possible. What a great life. Thank you for sharing.

5 April 2021, 07:37 AM	#79
datejustrms "TRF" Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: USA Watch: Rolex Posts: 2,799	That is fantastic Paul! You must be so proud of him. What a great post by you!

5 April 2021, 07:59 AM	#80
Dr. Robert 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Real Name: Bob Location: U.S.A. Watch: 1655 Posts: 61,237	Who's cutting onions here? This is the best incoming news! Congratulations to your son & also to you Sent from my SM-G973U using Tapatalk __________________ Founder & Card Carrying Member of the Global Association of Retro-Grouch-Curmudgeons

5 April 2021, 08:27 AM	#81
slawa "TRF" Member Join Date: Apr 2020 Location: new york Posts: 191	congrats to you and your son, stay strong and positive.

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Burlington "TRF" Member Join Date: Nov 2017 Location: Europe Posts: 5,634	This is exceptionally heartwarming to read and brings hope I’m sure to many __________________ “My tastes are simple; I am easily satisfied with the best.” ― Winston S. Churchill

5 April 2021, 08:43 AM	#83
polaris72 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Feb 2015 Location: U.S./Vienna, AT Posts: 1,967	This is the reason I am coming back to TRF, to read about people like you which gives inspiration and hope to others. You are a good dad with great kids.

5 April 2021, 09:06 AM	#84
1st amg 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Real Name: nicholas Location: ottawa canada Watch: Rolex,AP,Panerai Posts: 9,461	This is such an incredible achievement and this is absolutely the place for you to share such an amazing feel good story. I am so happy for you and your boys. The fact your other son and this sibling stuck together brings tears to my eyes after all you both went through. God bless you guys! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

5 April 2021, 09:14 AM	#85
Boothroyd 2024 ROLEX DATEJUST41 Pledge Member Join Date: May 2011 Real Name: Daniel Location: Minneapolis, MN Watch: Wilsdorf(s) Posts: 10,185	Fantastic news and what a great dad you are! You should be very proud! __________________ Explorer 214270 MK I/Datejust II Black 116300/Tudor Heritage Black Bay Black 79220N

5 April 2021, 09:25 AM	#87
slimboy1974 "TRF" Member Join Date: Mar 2020 Location: Scotland Watch: Two Tone Daytona Posts: 379	Lovely you must be so so proud

5 April 2021, 09:55 AM	#88
RaZCaL "TRF" Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: NYC Watch: 116500,116610,VCO Posts: 844	Incredible story! This brought a tear to my eyes. Congratulations to your son and your family. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt post.

5 April 2021, 09:55 AM	#89
RW16610 2024 Pledge Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Real Name: Rommel Location: Toronto Canada Watch: 116710LN Posts: 8,963	This is such an incredible, inspiring story. Thank you so much for sharing this as it's certainly the feel good moment of the day for me. You're amazing for all you've done both directly and indirectly to help make this happen. Very proud of him!

5 April 2021, 10:56 AM	#90
Ecandrew "TRF" Member Join Date: Jul 2020 Location: Connecticut Watch: 16710 Pepsi Posts: 56	From one autism dad to another: I’m proud of you both.

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