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Old 18 September 2019, 09:07 PM   #31
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Thanks all. I appreciate the sympathies but I don’t want this to be a sob story. New day, new watch, new outlook....
That’s the right attitude Blake

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Old 18 September 2019, 09:21 PM   #32
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Old 18 September 2019, 09:29 PM   #33
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New day, new watch, new outlook. You summed it up perfectly
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Old 18 September 2019, 10:25 PM   #34
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Safe travels to you. Congrats! and post pics when you can.

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Old 18 September 2019, 10:25 PM   #35
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I feel your pain, my brother.

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Old 18 September 2019, 11:37 PM   #36
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Nice Daytona man
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Old 18 September 2019, 11:40 PM   #37
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Been there done that buddy (the divorce part). Divorce sucks but you always come out better in the end. Fantastic watch! Good luck
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Old 19 September 2019, 12:16 AM   #38
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Congratulations on your new watch. But, hearty congrats on your *freedom*! Nothing more satisfying than extracting yourself from a mentally unhealthy situation.

Personally, I've never had any intention of getting hitched and as such, can be a little cavalier about the institution. My parents 53 year marriage notwithstanding, far too many stories like yours soured me decades ago. Too many friends living in rooming houses after unsuccessful marriages after losing beautiful homes, cars, Art Collections, etc. Marriage is great for some and clearly, my opinion is my own but the financial ramifications and, usually the bad blood between the ex partners is not for me. When young children are affected negatively, it's even more tragic.

I sincerely hope you don't dwell excessively on the situation and look forward to the next chapter. The Daytona is a great start even though it's only a materialistic 'vain bijou'. (sp)
Sometimes even a small gift to oneself can put a smile on your face when looking into an uncertain future.

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Thanks for the very thoughtful reply. I couldn’t agree more. While I definitely took a massive financial hit (gave up a great house to keep the kids in it) and my collection unfortunately faced some casualties, I realize it’s short term and the opportunity cost of being in the wrong relationship is far bigger. Focused on the future and you are also right about how sometimes a trivial thing like a new watch can help jolt you back into a better mindset.

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Old 19 September 2019, 12:17 AM   #39
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That’s the right attitude Blake



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Thanks buddy. Cheers.


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Old 19 September 2019, 12:19 AM   #40
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Killer. Good luck on this new chapter


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Old 19 September 2019, 01:12 AM   #41
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Thanks for the very thoughtful reply. I couldn’t agree more. While I definitely took a massive financial hit (gave up a great house to keep the kids in it) and my collection unfortunately faced some casualties, I realize it’s short term and the opportunity cost of being in the wrong relationship is far bigger. Focused on the future and you are also right about how sometimes a trivial thing like a new watch can help jolt you back into a better mindset.

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Wow, that puts a smile on *my* face!

Blake, you seem like a nice guy and your attitude is so positive sounding that I'm sure you'll be better off in the long run.

All the best,
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Old 19 September 2019, 10:58 AM   #42
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Congratulations on your new watch.

No matter what the divorce cost you financially you now own 100% of your future income and decisions.

Best of luck moving forward


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Old 19 September 2019, 11:22 AM   #43
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Old 19 September 2019, 11:46 AM   #44
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I got divorced also. Her choice, I’m really glad now as she wasn’t a horrible person, but being a woman she was getting uglier every year.

Fact men age better than women. My kid is grown so no child support.
Everyday is a sun shining day.
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Old 19 September 2019, 12:05 PM   #45
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Congratulations on your new watch.

No matter what the divorce cost you financially you now own 100% of your future income and decisions.

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Very true. Cheers!
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Old 19 September 2019, 12:06 PM   #46
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I got divorced also. Her choice, I’m really glad now as she wasn’t a horrible person, but being a woman she was getting uglier every year.

Fact men age better than women. My kid is grown so no child support.
Everyday is a sun shining day.
I do know for a fact that watches age better...
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Old 19 September 2019, 12:11 PM   #47
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And your lawyers ended up with Porsches.

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Sorry about the marriage. At least you got some money left over to afford a Rolex.

I know of some messy splits that have left both parties pretty much with nothing.
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Old 19 September 2019, 12:14 PM   #48
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I got divorced also. Her choice, I’m really glad now as she wasn’t a horrible person, but being a woman she was getting uglier every year.

Fact men age better than women. My kid is grown so no child support.
Everyday is a sun shining day.
Lol! No woman, no cry - Bob Marley
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Old 19 September 2019, 12:58 PM   #49
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Fantastic! Congratulations!
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Old 19 September 2019, 01:02 PM   #50
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Perfect companion that Daytona. Cheers to new adventures moving forward.
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