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Old 5 June 2021, 08:16 AM   #1
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Anyone else cringe a little when people post a social media watch "Flex"

Anyone else cringe a little when someone posts a steering wheel with watch or similar social media "flex"? I feel like it contributes to the rich jerk stigma that unfortunately goes with Rolexes. I think it also makes it so obvious that the poster is more interested in the $$/status vibe than the actual watch.

IDK - what do people think?
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Old 5 June 2021, 08:38 AM   #2
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Yeah. It’s sad that people feel the need to flaunt material things to try to receive compliments from others. For the most part I don’t follow people that do this. Besides some grey dealers, but they’re trying to sell a lifestyle so I get why they do it.


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Old 5 June 2021, 08:41 AM   #3
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Based on how Rolex seems to be positioning the brand, charging $10k retail for what they still label a “professional” dive watch (IF you can get one at retail), do you have any reason to believe what you call the “rich jerk stigma” isn’t exactly the image that Rolex wants to project now?
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Old 5 June 2021, 08:56 AM   #4
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Lmfao yet you're on a rolexforum flexing your daytona any chance you get.

Social media is just cringeworthy in general for the most part
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Old 5 June 2021, 08:57 AM   #5
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Flexing is mildly annoying. Humble bragging is supremely annoying. Both are integral to social media.
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Old 5 June 2021, 09:23 AM   #6
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I don't have any issue with people posting such. Some are just into hobbies, not necessarily showing off to the masses, but rather other enthusiasts. Social Media in general though is largely a waste of time and brain cells imo.
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Old 5 June 2021, 09:42 AM   #7
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I guess that's what TRF is for, at least given the daily WRUW posts, etc. If not here, then where?
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Old 5 June 2021, 09:50 AM   #8
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I have my IG tailored to only show certain brands (mostly Seiko) and certain users, so I rarely see much flexing. If I do, I can just block the flexer. Consequently, almost all the flexing I see is on TRF. If you just want to see people sharing watch pics for the love of the hobby, IG is the best place, IMO. But you have to set it up right. It's also a lot more civil than here, too.
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Old 5 June 2021, 10:09 AM   #9
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Adam makes some good points above!

I can add one more, stay OFF social media!!
You'll feel a lot better..

I actually culled all accounts on that medium, and limit my exposure to TRF only, that way I only deal with the sickness of watches.
Everything else is just noise.
Worry about what is important in life, health and immediate family.
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Old 5 June 2021, 10:40 AM   #10
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Old 5 June 2021, 10:55 AM   #11
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Its not just SMedia, I was at a company function and the Marketing Director noticed my 116710 and said "nice flex" ...ugh. Right up there with "drippin'"
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Old 5 June 2021, 10:59 AM   #12
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Anyone else cringe a little when someone posts a steering wheel with watch or similar social media "flex"? ?
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I guess that's what TRF is for, at least given the daily WRUW posts, etc. If not here, then where?


Perhaps there is a translation in here somewhere for those that want to understand what is being discussed about posting pictures of watches?
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Old 5 June 2021, 11:05 AM   #13
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The word "Flex" and anyone that uses it triggers me.....
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Old 5 June 2021, 11:10 AM   #14
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Do you mean all the incoming pics here on TRF ;)
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Old 5 June 2021, 11:17 AM   #15
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Anyone else cringe a little when people post a social media watch "Flex"


It’s all good when you ask for the picture though?

Or when you decide to “flex” yourself?



Please explain the difference between flexing and just taking a picture of ones watch. I don’t understand. Did I flex taking a picture with the steering wheel of my $450 BMW? Essentially it meets your standards of a picture of a Rolex in front of a steering wheel.
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Old 5 June 2021, 12:29 PM   #16
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i’m fine with first person shot and fine with steering wheel too, i find purposefully posed shot from third person view very cringy


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Old 5 June 2021, 01:28 PM   #17
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I’m waiting for a picture of someone handling a hobo a dollar


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Old 5 June 2021, 01:51 PM   #18
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Nah, I just spew in my mouth a little.
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Old 5 June 2021, 03:51 PM   #19
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I mean.....come on, the fact we all take wrist shots of $5k-$100k watches in the snow, on the beach, with our car, with our steaks, with our cigars, with our beers, with our friends mother’s relatives friends with Rolexes.....these are all flexs.....especially when most people in America don’t have $2k in the bank even.

I mean, it’s a watch. I wear watches maybe 10 times per year total. The off topic forum is the crown jewel of this entire site, I think most of us realize that. I just don’t see what people can post about in the watch section of the site after a month or two as you will have seen every single topic that can be started in that timeframe and nothing new actually is talked about unless Basel is happening.
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Old 6 June 2021, 12:42 AM   #20
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Social media is designed as a flex.

Look what I have....look how crazy I am.....look how smart I am.......look how beautiful I am.....look a UFO.......

It's all flex.
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Old 6 June 2021, 12:45 AM   #21
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I dont cringe, but it does get repetitive and boring to see the 'C*ck' fest and bench race mentality of many watch 'PURCHASERS'...

I mean, how many yacht owners can there possibly be...
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Old 6 June 2021, 12:49 AM   #22
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Social media is designed as a flex.

Look what I have....look how crazy I am.....look how smart I am.......look how beautiful I am.....look a UFO.......

It's all flex.
Yep. To sum it up....."Look at me"
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Old 6 June 2021, 03:42 AM   #23
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I have my IG tailored to only show certain brands (mostly Seiko) and certain users, so I rarely see much flexing. If I do, I can just block the flexer. Consequently, almost all the flexing I see is on TRF. If you just want to see people sharing watch pics for the love of the hobby, IG is the best place, IMO. But you have to set it up right. It's also a lot more civil than here, too.
100% agree with this, especially the more civil part.

Another thread bashing social media, yet here we are on a social media platform, with much "flexing," nonetheless. Too funny.
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Old 6 June 2021, 04:28 AM   #24
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I mean.....come on, the fact we all take wrist shots of $5k-$100k watches in the snow, on the beach, with our car, with our steaks, with our cigars, with our beers, with our friends mother’s relatives friends with Rolexes.....these are all flexs.....especially when most people in America don’t have $2k in the bank even.

I mean, it’s a watch. I wear watches maybe 10 times per year total. The off topic forum is the crown jewel of this entire site, I think most of us realize that. I just don’t see what people can post about in the watch section of the site after a month or two as you will have seen every single topic that can be started in that timeframe and nothing new actually is talked about unless Basel is happening.
Why do you wear watches only 10 times per year?
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Old 6 June 2021, 04:43 AM   #25
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Social media showing expensive “things” like Rolex, sports cars, boats, houses, etc is total garbage. Most of these posts share no information, review, opinion about said thing. Only a flex to show the world “I have it” and many with a price. It’s all ego.

When I see this, I just think to myself what a hollow and garbage person must be posting this. I’ve never posted any of my “things” on social media. Flexing is for narcissistic fools who have yet to grow out of that phase of life.

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Old 6 June 2021, 04:59 AM   #26
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Social media showing expensive “things” like Rolex, sports cars, boats, houses, etc is total garbage. Most of these posts share no information, review, opinion about said thing. Only a flex to show the world “I have it” and many with a price. It’s all ego.

When I see this, I just think to myself what a hollow and garbage person must be posting this. I’ve never posted any of my “things” on social media. Flexing is for narcissistic fools who have yet to grow out of that phase of life.

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So you don't post pictures of your watch here?
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Old 6 June 2021, 05:26 AM   #27
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Why do you wear watches only 10 times per year?
May have strapped on one of my junkers once last year and not a single time yet this year as I see no point in it when all I need to do is look at my piephone...!
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Old 6 June 2021, 05:27 AM   #28
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Social media showing expensive “things” like Rolex, sports cars, boats, houses, etc is total garbage. Most of these posts share no information, review, opinion about said thing. Only a flex to show the world “I have it” and many with a price. It’s all ego.

When I see this, I just think to myself what a hollow and garbage person must be posting this. I’ve never posted any of my “things” on social media. Flexing is for narcissistic fools who have yet to grow out of that phase of life.

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Yes its just down right appalling and despicable for sure....!
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Old 6 June 2021, 06:24 AM   #29
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The pot calling the kettle black.

An internet forum is a form of social media and all of the incoming & WRUW images are a form of flex...
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Old 6 June 2021, 06:58 AM   #30
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The pot calling the kettle black.

An internet forum is a form of social media and all of the incoming & WRUW images are a form of flex...
Stainless Steel Watches sure do not seem like any form of flexing to me..!
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